Am I the only one that think the entire world is becoming more sissified by the day?

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I swear, I gotta say it.

It seems to be “out of vogue” to say it like it is – which it always was. More than that, calling people out seems to be met with even more “shaming” (not that I care two hoots) – and people calling you a “tool” or something like that for saying it like is.

If you are a serial job quitter, God forbid someone say that at the risk of supporting abusive employers (so called) and being so called insensitive and what not.

Even my wife, who rarely agrees with me about anything agrees on one thing – Amazon is doing SOMETHING right despite a lot of employees there constantly complaining about something or the other (low pay, no benefits, what not).

At least they HAVE a job, she mused . . .

Spot on (hey, I give credit where its due!)

(true, every big company has issues with employees claiming to be paid cut throat wages and what not, but really – Amazon? The way it’s grown is sheer genius and people forget the reliability and low prices that keeps it where it is – along with customer service – right at the top of the chain when making their moronic complaints).

Oh but wait, they’re “poor mistreated employees” and not morons …

Then we have the fat wackos that can’t do pull-ups that apparently have the right to troll my posts on pull-ups with meaningless rubbish and claim “I just blather on and say just do it” and that “my fitness advice is useless”.

Classic case of a bald man teaching a man with hair on how to grow it!

The students attempting to teach a very practical and able teacher . . .

Insane!

Then we have idiots that claim “they’re big but not fat”.

Call ’em out, and they whine.

Then we have – I just saw this – people with eating disorders that if you tell them not to barf after every meal out of fear of looking not so thin or consciousness or what not?

Didnt you know, the reason women do it is not because “they choose to!”

It’s the male pressure, its the pressure society puts on them! Sob!

And so forth.

I find this constant sissification to be sickening to say the least and to be very honest.

When I was a phat phock, I wasn’t mollycoddled or given a shoulder to cry upon. The opposite, in fact.

Result?

You decide!

Same thing for me growing up, in school, college, what not.

Result?

You decide!

Jobs – I was very vociferously derided and still am for leaving many of ’em …

Result?

Again, you decide . . .

Dont get me wrong, there are some and many cases in which a person needs genuine help, but by and large most of the whinging going on out there brings to mind one thing – entitled LAZY phat phocks and BRATS.

“Your fitness advice doesn’t help anyone!”

So he says. So says the guy that can’t do a pull-up – – for years – – after trying it HIS own way, yet he won’t do it my way because it requires – ahem – hard work!

(truth be told, he wanted it all for free which he knew he wouldn’t get, and was too lazy to read what he DID get, so … )

Or this gem –

People choose to have an eating disorder…

This is what someone said on one of my posts last week.

Now I’ve tried and tried to let it go but…I can’t.

That comment really REALLY got to me.

Now I know there is a lack of knowledge on this subject but…

Do we really think people choose to fight demons?

Do we really think people choose to be in and out of hospital?

Do we really think people choose to hurt the loved ones around them?

They don’t!
Why would they?!?

The truth is they can’t help it. ?‍♀️

The little voices the demons get the better of them sometimes and yes I’m included in this.

I still have my down days I still get the urge to purge when things don’t go exactly to plan.

It really is a daily struggle.

And comments like the one above can really affect people suffering from these things.

I can’t stop them from stepping up and reaching out for help.

So THINK before you speak people as you have no idea how your words can affect others.

All the other dude said was “they have a choice”. (which this gal does – either be a bratty entitled victim, or DO something about it (and not just “support groups” and other nonsense that isn’t even required for this)).

And seriously, if you looked at the video she posted (the whiner)?

PURE -UNADULTERATED – BRAT!

Especially the way she gestures with her fingers etc, all made up to a T.

(No I ain’t jealous hun and no “it doesnt bother me” – before the inane “so why do you care” comes in from Nazi feminists).

I dont care.

but I gotta say it like it is.

One of the responeses to that bratty post was “if someone says they have a choice, they’re a tool”.

I guess I’m a tool. I’m that most of the time of course, when I call phat phocks what they are – phat – when I call the lazy farts out for what they are – “unwanted burdens on the planet” – when I call the pumpers and toners out for having no real strength and conditioning – when I tell you that BODYWEIGHT exercises are champ even though real weightlifting is great too – and so forth.

But guess what, I’d rather be that.

And ladies, no, you don’t to achieve those silly “Uniqlo” standards of fitting into girls clothes – kids clothes at that.

I’d think anyone with any common sense would know that!

yet, many don’t.

I dont know, man.

Maybe I’m just old fashioned.

But when I had to quit cigarettes, I didnt do it via support groups, vapes, or what not.

I buckled down, and did it.

When I had to lose weight – ditto.

No-one “helped” me or what not. I did it!

My point simply is – running away from FACTS rarely, if ever helps change ’em …

But hey, who am I huh. Hehe.