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Ever notice when we consciously “want” something not to happen the exact same thing DOES, and when we least expect or want it?

For example, my wife, and her constant lament about “why my candidates” (she’s a recruiter) keep calling during lunch.

My gentle advice to her was this (which went ignored, of course, hehe. What does yours truly know eh other than being a cavemen) …

“Honey, just keep the phone to the side. It can wait. The calls can wait!”

And the irritated, furious response it prompted made me STOP saying it.

Now, when I hear the same complaint, I just say “ho hum”.

But really, the point begets.

If you’re PUTTING the phone right next to you, then guess what.

The subconscious gets the signal that “it will ring”.

Sure, like on clockwork, it does!

Back in the day when writing, when my little one was YOUNG, she’d always somehow show up in my room just when I had one of those bursts of inspiration to WRITE. To you!

And somehow, sometimes I’d forget my initial train of thought (though I’d get it back later).

I could never figure out why this was happening.

Until one day I told myself this.

“Why don’t I stop expecting that she will disturb me”.

Presto!

You’d think I waved a magic wand, so quickly did this work.

Same thing applies fitness wise.

If you keep saying “it wont work” in a mournful sort of tone when you buy Pushup Central, for one, then guess what.

It wont.

If you keep saying you can’t get better at pull-ups when you buy the book on it, then guess what.

You ain’t gonna get better!

We attract based upon TWO things.

One, what we consciously affirm to ourselves that we DO want.

Doing so sends the right signal to the subconscious mind, and this, my friend is the true seat of POWER and manifestation in YOUR LIFE – much like shoulders like BOULDERS, wide as BARNDOORs (lats) are the true sign of a man’s upper body power, for one.

And I dont mean just the look obviously.

And two, well, I said it above.

What the subconscious has been programmed to believe.

Take care of these two little details, and watch your life FLOW.

Best,

Rahul Mookerjee

PS – I cover this sort of thing regularly in my coaching calls. Sign up HERE to see if you “got what it takes”!